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You know it and I know it. The wheel that squeaks the loudest always gets greased first. The complainer, the whiner, the pusher, the puller…whatever it takes to be heard, human beings have bought the “squeaky wheel” phenomena. And most of the time the squeaker gets his way, but not with God.

He who is slow to anger has great understanding.” Proverbs 14:29

One of the fruits of the spirit, which God clearly indicates are present in true Christianity, is self-control. Many of us want to slip that one under the carpet and choose not to include it in our “fruit salad;” however, God is pretty clear on His instructions about anger. I’ve heard it justified that even Jesus got angry…once…in the house of His Father…over men gambling and selling…so…I can yell and scream at the cashier at Walmart because I had to wait in line. Hmmmmm…

Understand this, my beloved brethren. Let every man be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to take offense and to get angry. For man’s anger does not promote the righteousness God wishes and requires.” James 1:19-20

Several years ago I was given the opportunity to speak with a gentleman who was born in Poland but spent years in a Nazi concentration camp. At the age of 12, he was sent to study piano in Moscow, Russia. In route, he was imprisoned with several scientists from Russia. A child prodigy of sorts, he was robbed of his opportunity to be a concert pianist by the Germans. He later studied medicine after the war and never returned to Poland because his entire family was killed during the invasion. When I spoke with him, his demeanor appeared slow and languishing and yet his wit was quick and intelligent.  As he talked of his ordeal,the realness of it all felt as if it had just happened; although he was a much older man now. “You are stronger than you know,” he said to me, pointing a finger ridden with arthritis. “Every day other men, scientists by profession, encouraged me with that one phrase. ‘You are stronger than you know.’ Do not allow life and people to make you angry for when you do, you are accepting the way they are treating you.”

Responding to our struggles and obstacles instead of reacting to them allows us to feel God’s power in our soul.

Proverbs 16:32, “Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city.”  

Often when I myself feel frustrated, I remind myself, “There is a solution for everything. We just need to find it.”

Be a listener. Put thought in what you are going to say. And through your actions, promote righteousness as God wishes and requires.

Meeting Minds: Malala Yousafzal

When we meet the minds of others, we can better understand one another. Today, meet the mind of Malala Yousafzal, author of I am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by the Taliban. 

“We realize the importance of our voice only when we are silenced.” – Malala Yousafzal

Habersham County Commissioners budget vote Monday

Your last chance to voice your opinion on the Habersham County government’s budget plan for 2016 is coming up on Monday.

The Habersham County Board of Commissioners will conduct a second Public Hearing for the FY2015-2016 Budget on Monday June 22 at 6:00 pm in the Jury Assembly Room at the Courthouse in Clarkesville.   They are expected to vote on the plan at that meeting.

You can get copies of the proposed Budget in the Commission office located inside the old courthouse in downtown Clarkesville and there is a summary available on the Habersham County website.

Some of the major changes in the upcoming spending plan include hiring new employees in a number of departments, pay raises for all county employees and higher insurance expenses. Despite the increased costs, the overall property tax rate will remain the same.

New Hires

$336,311 is set aside for new hires but some of that will be funded by budget cuts in other areas. Sheriff Joey Terrell says he cut his department’s spending by $83,000. “We cut some overtime and some part time.” The savings covers about half the cost of hiring 2 new patrol officers and 2 detention center officers.  “We will hopefully be adding some extra personnel to the roads soon to better protect our citizens.”

Dept. New Hires Cost*
Sheriff 2 Patrol Officers $89,658
Detention Center 2 Officers $78,156
Fire 3 Firemen $117,234
E911 1 Operator $38,778
Animal Control 1 Part-Time $12,485

* Includes salaries, benefits and other employee costs

Employee Pay Raises

Sheriff Terrell did not get the 5% increase in officer pay he’d asked for back in March. Instead, the county will boost all employee pay by 3.5%. “We asked for 5% because we’re losing people. We’re losing people to industry because they can make more money and get better insurance,” explains Sheriff Terrell. While it’s less than he’d hoped, he says he is satisfied with what commissioners are willing to do, “The 3.5% the county is considering is a good thing because you have to try to retain your employees.”

The 3.5% pay raise for all county employees will cost $274,707.

County Manager Phil Sutton says employee retention is a real problem because Habersham lags behind nearby communities when it comes to our overall pay scale, “We’re between 12% and 13% behind the market. It was okay when the economy was bad and we had a lot of unemployment. Now that unemployment is around 5%, we are having a hard time keeping people.”

911/EMA Director Lynn Smith agrees, “Our turnover is very high. It’s hard to get qualified people. Out of ten people that I hire, I might keep two.” Smith has employees sign a contract stating that they’ll stay with the department for 3 years or face a financial penalty. “Some are willing to pay the penalty to leave and go to other counties where they can make more money. I can’t compete.”

Leaders say they’d like to do more to increase employee pay but can’t with the current financial situation. “The economy needs to turn around a in a much bigger way for us,” Sutton says. “We need to really see more commercial and industrial development here before we see any growth in revenue in order to catch up at all.”

Higher Insurance Costs

Taxpayers will have to pony up $122,800 more to cover county workers insurance costs in 2016 while employees will face higher deductibles and out of pocket expenses.

The cost to taxpayers for providing 137 “Employee-Only Plans” and 68 “Employee + Family Plans” will jump by 8.5%, from about $1.4 million to more than $1.5 million, for the fiscal year beginning on July 1.

Finance Director Trey Wood says it could have been more, “We went into this expecting a 14-15% increase.” Wood and Sutton worked with the broker to lower the cost to taxpayers but the compromise will cost employees.

Currently, the county picks up 100% of the premium costs for employees and 60% of premiums for covered family members. In order to maintain that promise, county leaders will switch to a higher-deductible plan in 2016. The deductible for the single employee will go from $3000 to $3500 while the family deductible jumps from $9000 to $10,500. The maximum out-of-pocket expenses increase by $1600 for the individual and $3,200 for families.

All other benefits (Co-Pay, Emergency Room, Prescriptions) remain the same.

Employees who want to keep the current, lower-deductible/lower-maximum, plan can do so but the difference in cost will come out of their paycheck.

Habersham Employee Insurance Option A Option B
Deductible (Single/Family) $3000/$9000* $3500/$10,500*
Coinsurance 80% 80%
Max Out of Pocket $5000/$10,000* $6,600/$13,200*
Premium Cost Single $12.65** $0.00**
Premium Cost Single (Tobacco User) $47.92** $35.28**
Premium Cost Family $169.60** $138.35**
Premium Cost Family (Tobacco User) $256.75** $225.51**

*In-Network      **Per Pay Period

Lower Tax Digest

Property values in Habersham County rose by $17 million but a reduction in the overall tax digest will mean less revenue for the county.

Now Habersham received a draft copy of the soon-to-be-released Tax Digest which lays out the value of all the property in Habersham County. These initial figures show the current total value of all “Real and Personal” property in the county is more than $1.2 billion, an increase of about $17 million over 2014.

“You can see some growth as you go through here,” Finance Director Wood points out. “That’s a good thing in my opinion.”

Unfortunately, for the county government, the taxable value of cars, trucks and other motor vehicles dropped by right at $20 million and the value of mobile homes dipped slightly. The drop in motor vehicle taxes is not unexpected. In 2013, Georgia shifted from yearly ad valorem taxes to a one-time “title tax” on cars and trucks. That line item of the digest has dropped every year since.

Wood stresses that all these numbers are just a draft of the official digest, “They (Tax Commissioner and Tax Assessor) are still tweaking some of the numbers so it could adjust a little bit.” We expect to see a final version before the end of the month.

The draft digest suggests the county government will likely have less to spend in 2016. While real estate values trended higher, once you include homestead and other exemptions, the county expects to collect $105 thousand less in 2016 than they did this year.

Millage Rate Remains Steady

Habersham County Commissioners won’t increase the millage rate (10.785) so they’ll have to get by on about 1% less in property tax revenue. That’s not a surprise to Wood. His office developed the new 2016 county budget very conservatively, projecting no growth in property tax revenue at all.

Have Your Say

The budget must be in place by July 1. The Habersham County Board of Commissioners will conduct a second Public Hearing for the FY2015-2016 Budget on Monday June 22 at 6:00 pm in the Jury Assembly Room at the Courthouse in Clarkesville. They are expected to vote on the plan at that meeting.

You can get copies of the proposed Budget in the Commission office located inside the old courthouse in downtown Clarkesville and there is a summary available on the Habersham County website.

A Father to the fatherless

A few weeks ago I took a walk in a nearby park. I was away from home at a conference and needed to clear my head. The neighborhood park felt inviting, filled with mom’s, strollers, and kids. Adjacent to the playground was a small pond with ducks swimming freely. Four older boys around ten-to-twelve years of age cast their fishing poles, waiting for a bite. I took a trail through the woods on a narrow path. The peacefulness after a hectic morning of serious discussions was refreshing. I sat down at the base of a large tree to think. A small rock hit the top of my head. It didn’t really hurt but it didn’t really feel good either. Ten seconds later another rock bounced from my head and another. I looked around wondering what it could be and heard laughter.

At first I heard just a giggle, and then more, until the laugh was very audible. Up above me in the tree, nestled on the hearty branches was a little boy around 7 or 8. Dark skinned, no shirt, barefooted, and skinny.

“What are you doing?” I asked.

The boy laughed again. “Dropping rocks on your head.”

“Well, I know that,” I answered, “But why?”

He paused for a moment then replied,”I wanted to see if I could hit your head.”

“Oh. Now that you have, what are you going to do?”

“I don’t know, but I ain’t coming down,” he said determined.

“Why not?”

He tilted his head and paused for a moment as if to size me up. “Cause my mama’s going to skin me alive and feed me to the alligators.”

“I’d probably stay up there too. What’d you do?”

He laughed nervously. “I spray painted my dad’s trophies black.”

I nodded and sat back down on the ground. “I’d stay up there too if I were you. That’s some pretty bad stuff. I was wondering what that lady was going to do with those alligators. Now I know they were for you, ” I teased.

His silence made me smile as I leaned my head against the trunk of the tree and closed my eyes. I probably didn’t count to a hundred before I felt the touch of his hand against my shoulder. His dark brown eyes stared at mine. “I thought you weren’t coming down.”

“I thought I had killed you,” he responded. “I’m Joshua.”

“My name is Mike. Nice to meet you Joshua.”

He sat down beside me and told me all about his dad. How cool he thought he was. His dad played baseball and won many trophies. His dad had a really expensive car and made a lot of money. He wore really nice shoes. Story after story…his dad could run faster, jump higher, catch more fish, climb higher…you name it, his dad had done it and better than anyone anywhere.

The sound of footsteps caused Joshua to jump to his feet and take-off running. “Gotta go Mike. The alligators are going to get me.”

A tall white woman approached me with worried eyes. “Did you see a little boy? Dark skinned?”

“I did. He just took off down the trail.”

“Thank you.” She replied with a sigh, “My husband and I are foster parents. He just came to live with us two days ago.”

“Really? Where is his dad?”

“I don’t think he’s ever known his dad. His mother is in jail. I’m his fifth foster home. Why?”

Psalm 68:4-6, “Sing to God, sing in praise of His name, extol Him who rides on the clouds; rejoice before Him – His name is the Lord. A Father to the fatherless, a Defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families, He leads the prisoners with singing.”

I struggled with emotion as I stood to my feet. How many children live wondering when the alligators are coming? How many children fill their minds with imaginary people to love them when they should have real people to love them?

God has called us to be His hands and feet – a father to the fatherlessa defender of widows. God puts the lonely in families. I thought of my children. I thought of my father. I thought of all the hours my dad had spent tossing that baseball with me. All the hugs and laughter that filled the halls of my home with our three running around.

I reached in my pocket. Someone had just given me tickets, and I hadn’t planned to use them. “You don’t know me. But could I take you, your husband, and Joshua to a baseball game tonight?”

She smiled. “I’ll stay at home but I know my husband and Joshua would love to go.”

To all men out there who strive to be good fathers – thank you. God set the example, we just need to follow His instruction.

I once heard a quote, “If you can wish it for everyone, make it possible for one.”

 

Meeting Minds

When we meet the minds of others, we can better understand one another. Today, meet the mind of Nora Cordell Almazan on behalf of Father’s Day.

 

“Thank you, Dad for everything you’ve done for me and everything you continue to do. I love you for who you are and who you’ve made me to be.” – Nora Cordell Almazan

Lions announce Athletics Honor Roll

Demorest, GA – The Piedmont College Department of Athletics has released its Director of Athletics Honor Roll for the spring semester of 2015 with 137 student-athletes making the listing. The number rose from last fall’s awards listing when 122 made the grade.

Spots on the Honor Roll go to student-athletes who carried a GPA of 3.40 or better this past spring semester. Perhaps even more impressive was the number of students on the list who maintained a perfect 4.0 for the semester with 34 doing so, up from 19 in the fall who earned a 4.0 semester average.

“As Director of Intercollegiate Athletics, I am extremely proud of the many fine student athletes listed here,” said Dzik of the newly released listing. “They exemplify what Division III athletics is all about…athletes producing outstanding results in the classroom and in the athletic arena.”

The average GPA for student-athletes as a whole at Piedmont for the spring semester was once again above 3.0 as well. One student-athlete honored on the AD listing was also named a Capital One Academic All-American with ABBY SMITH of softball taking the honor. Two more, women’s lacrosse player ALEXIS NARDUCCI and baseball player JOSH THOMAS, were named Capital One Academic All-District selections as well.

Student-Athlete Name Sport(s)
Akin, Marissa M Women’s Soccer
Ammons, Patrick E Men’s Lacrosse
Assinesi, Landry K Men’s Basketball
Astin, Alex R Baseball
Atkinson, Abby V Softball
Bailey, Tristian A Women’s Soccer
Baker, Mick S Men’s Lacrosse
Ballinger, Brittany M Women’s Soccer
Barnes, Michael E Baseball
Barrett, Brianna H Women’s Basketball
Bearden, Lauren Softball
Bell, Andrea L Women’s Cross Country
Bell, Courtney L Women’s Soccer
Bergin, Jessica L Women’s Lacrosse
Bible, Christopher J Men’s Soccer
Blanchard, Stephen C Men’s Lacrosse
Brick, Austin P Baseball
Brideau, Jenine M Women’s Lacrosse
Brown, Isabella V Women’s Cross Country
Browning, Jacob D Baseball
Brunner, Ashley E Lacrosse/Cross Country
Burkett, Tatiana J Women’s Tennis
Burns, Maryrose J Softball
Callocchio, Patrick A Baseball
Carter, Laura K Softball
Castles, Savannah F Women’s Soccer
Childers, Alex M Baseball
Coleman, Austin T Men’s Golf
Coleman, Cassidy L Men’s Basketball
Corbett, Trenton C Baseball
Corson, Emily E Women’s Soccer
Cramsey, Taylor A Volleyball
Davidson, William B Baseball
Davis, Cecilia A Women’s Soccer
De Jesus, Patrick J Baseball
Douglas, McKynsey R Women’s Lacrosse
Dowdy, Cason Men’s Soccer
Edelman, Morgan Women’s Soccer
Edwards, Brian J Men’s Basketball
Ellison III, Graham P Men’s Lacrosse
England, Brandon C Men’s Basketball
Etheredge, Richard D Men’s Golf
Eubanks, Madison C Softball
Forbes, Jake W Men’s Golf
Freund, Kayla M Women’s Lacrosse
Fricks, Dustin T Baseball
Gale, Elizabeth A Women’s Soccer
Gantz, John S Men’s Lacrosse
Gentry, Allyson C Softball
George, Seth H Baseball
Goershel, Christopher D Baseball
Gonzalez, Ashlie Women’s Soccer
Gottko, Alexis A Women’s Soccer
Gould, Erin E Softball
Green, Alexandra F Volleyball
Green, Nicholas J Men’s Lacrosse
Groover, Justin L Baseball
Hall, Alana L Women’s Lacrosse
Harvel, Randee Volleyball
Healy, Shayna M Women’s Soccer
Hearn, Kenneth F Men’s Soccer
Hill, Samuel D Men’s Golf
Holt, Nathan T Baseball
Holton, Maxwell W Baseball
Ibarra, Gilbert Men’s Lacrosse
Jameson, Alec N Men’s Tennis
Jarrell, Lacey M Women’s Soccer
Jenkins, Jessie M Men’s Basketball
Jones, Kayla E Women’s Lacrosse
Keller, Christopher T Men’s Soccer
Krimmer, Dylan A Men’s Soccer
Langley, Zachary R Baseball
Lanier, Marquise Men’s Basketball
Laprade, Heather L Volleyball
Leary, Mallory L Volleyball
Leeuwenburg, Mollie C Women’s Soccer
Lockridge, Connor Men’s Soccer
Luken, Peyton B Men’s Basketball
Mamula, Ashton N Women’s Golf
Manns, Cahner M Women’s Lacrosse
Marcinko, Tyler J Baseball
Marquis, Todd W Baseball
Martin, Trey N Men’s Tennis
Maslo, Alen Men’s Soccer
Mathews, Nicholas A Baseball
Matics, Brandon T Baseball
May, Tyler Baseball
McDaniel, Maggie A Women’s Lacrosse
McMillian, James A Men’s Golf
Metzger, Nathan Men’s Tennis
Mikell, Branson J Men’s Lacrosse
Miraglia, Stephen J Men’s Lacrosse
Morley, Dale Men’s Lacrosse
Murillo, Tiffany L Women’s Cross Country
Narducci, Alexis T Women’s Lacrosse
Neill, Caleb B Baseball
Norman, Kaitlin A Volleyball
Oberkofler, Maxwell T Baseball
O’Brien, Caitlin T Women’s Lacrosse
Olson, Griffin R Baseball
Opper, Jennifer L Volleyball
Parham, Casey J Baseball
Parris, Joshua L Men’s Lacrosse
Passini, Rily Men’s Cross Country
Passmore, James C Men’s Basketball
Perry, Samuel R Men’s Soccer
Richards, Dallas A Baseball
Riza, Mason G Men’s Tennis
Rockhill, Mallory J Women’s Basketball
Ruck, Logan T Women’s Lacrosse
Ryan, Nickolas C Men’s Basketball
Salvatelli, David F Men’s Lacrosse
Schaffernoth, Kelsey A Women’s Soccer
Schmidt, Joshua A Men’s Lacrosse
Scholtz, Morgan R Softball
Schutz, Codi F Men’s Soccer
Slaughter, Tiffany Women’s Lacrosse
Smith, Malorie J Women’s Golf
Soelter, Tabea M Women’s Soccer
Steele, Ashley K Volleyball
Stepler, Daniel A Baseball
Stewart, Ryan C Baseball
Stinson, Bradley A Baseball
Sullens, Dakota Women’s Basketball
Surgent, Julianna L Women’s Lacrosse
Swoszowski, Taylor M Women’s Basketball
Tate, Joshua Baseball
Thomas, Travis J. Baseball
Thomas, Vincent G Men’s Soccer
Trotter, Amanda J Volleyball
VanKempen, Aaron P Men’s Golf
Vaughn, Allison M Softball
Walker, Sarah A Softball
Weisheit, Adam G Baseball
Werner, Robbie E Men’s Tennis
White, Christopher W Baseball
Wolfe, Whitney A Softball

“Tornado-like” winds topple trees in Batesville

Jasper Lee found fallen trees and branches in his Soque Falls neighborhood the morning after a "frightening" storm ripped through the area.

Downed trees and limbs blocked roads in the Soque Falls subdivision after a powerful storm swept through Thursday night. Jasper Lee (shown here) and his wife Delene photographed the storm’s aftermath.

Meeting Minds

When we meet the minds of others, we can better understand one another. Today, meet the mind of Neve Campbell,  a Canadian actress.

 

“Dance is certainly a sport, and they are phenomenal athletes, and they’re also artists.” – Neve Campbell

 

 

Walking Sermon

One of the greatest moments in my day is when I can preach. I really can’t imagine doing anything else. Years, years, years ago I may have said pitching baseballs but what a privilege to preach and love people. The other day I was thinking about all of us. Realistically, we are all walking sermons. It’s not about how many times we come to church or how much money we give. It’s not about the bumper stickers on our cars or the symbols we wear around our necks. No! Our sermon is what we do everyday – it’s how we walk, talk, respond, and act.

Obedience to God’s word – not just on Sunday – but Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday too! It’s at the ballgame, work, in the classroom, and in the gym. Everything we do and say is a sermon for God. It leaves me with the question – what are you preaching? What am I preaching? At Wal-Mart, what sermon did you deliver yesterday? One of kindness and love or impatience and intolerance. Maybe it was one about being judgmental or of being discriminatory.

The other night I was reading the story of Lazarus. It comes from John 11. The story is about a man, a friend of Jesus, who died. When Jesus returned to his house, he had been dead for at least four days. He was already in a tomb. Martha, the sister of Lazarus, was very special to Jesus and when he arrived, a heaviness of grief hovered over the home. I’ve read the scripture many times; I’ve preached on the story more times than I can count. But, the other night this scripture stood out for me.

John 11:38, “Jesus, once more deeply moved, came to the tomb. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. 39 ‘Take away the stone,‘ he said.”

Now Jesus knew he was going to raise Lazarus from the dead. So why would He ask that the stone be rolled away? I mean, if I could raise someone from the dead, I could certainly move the stone, couldn’t you? And oh how dramatic it would’ve been to point my fingers, wiggle them, shout out, “Open the tomb and come on out!” The stone would roll away and out walk Lazarus.

The reason Jesus didn’t do it that way is simple – PARTICIPATION. He wants our help. He wants our participation. He wants us to play a part in the miracle. He wants us to be His sermon.

Today, take away the stones blocking the miracles of God. Realize that you are an instrument God wants to use in a mighty but it starts with YOU. In your quiet time with God, ask Him to help you preach the life sermons He needs you to preach. Participate in The Kingdom of God

City of Cornelia reaches settlement in ‘Bou Bou’ case

We don’t know just how much it will cost the City of Cornelia’s insurance company yet but, according to court documents, the family of Bounkham Phonesavanh has dismissed the lawsuit against the city after reaching a settlement this week.

Phonesavanh, now two years old, is still recovering from burns and lacerations to his face and chest suffered when a flash grenade was thrown into a house on Lakeview Heights Circle in Cornelia last year. Officers from a regional drug task force were executing a no-knock search warrant at the time.

In February, Phonesavanh’s parents filed suit against the City of Cornelia and all the other local governments involved in the Regional Narcotics Investigation and Suppression team.

In a motion filed this week, the Phonesavanh’s attorney, Richard Hendrix, asked that Judge Robert Story dismiss the lawsuit against the City of Cornelia and the city’s insurer because “…an amicable settlement and compromise has been reached relative to the underlying dispute involved in this case, the case can now be dismissed with prejudice.”

Matching requests for dismissal were entered by the Georgia Interlocal Risk Management Agency (GIRMA) which is the city of Cornelia’s liability insurer and the city’s attorney Steve Campbell.

The clerk at the United States District Court for the Northern District of Georgia marked the case “Terminated” on Thursday afternoon.

As part of the settlement the Phonesavanh’s attorney also made a motion to remove Cornelia Police officer Paul Cheseboro and Assistant Chief Jonathan Roberts from a separate civil rights lawsuit stemming from the same May 2014 raid.

According to that document the other defendants, including Habersham Sheriff Joey Terrell, remain targets of the Phonesavanh’s civil rights suit.

The details and total amounts of the settlement with Cornelia have yet to be released but Now Habersham has learned that it includes a “stipulation that a trust will be created with a corporate fiduciary at a bank for the benefit of the minor child.”

That’s similar to the terms of the deal the Phonesavanhs struck with Habersham County’s insurance company in April. That agreement included a $964,000 settlement and a provision setting aside $200,000 in an annuity for Bounkham to be paid out directly to him in a series of 3 lump sum payments starting when he reaches age 18. The total value of those payments as scheduled would be $457,876 paid out over 15 years beginning in 2033.

An emailed request for comment from Cornelia City Attorney Steve Campbell was unanswered at the time of publication. We will bring you further details including how much GIRMA will have to pay the Phonesavanhs as soon as that information becomes available.

Community rallies around brain injured boy

Life can change in an instant. Just ask the Payne family of Toccoa. Connie and Chuck Payne’s 12 year old son Conner is confined to a wheelchair. He requires constant care. It wasn’t always like this.

Just look at the photos of him on Facebook and you’ll see how quickly – how drastically – Conner’s life has changed. Not so long ago he was a happy, seemingly healthy young boy with a zest for life. The pictures tell the story of a kid who played music, played on the beach and smiled a lot. Oh, how he smiled.

His smile is gone now, replaced by the exhaustion and exasperation of a young boy’s spirit that is fighting hard to overcome being trapped inside his own body.

Conner was born with fluid on his brain – a condition called hydrocephalus. A shunt was used to drain the fluid but, over time, he began suffering severe pain and other symptoms. On February 10th of this year Conner’s shunt failed. He suffered traumatic brain injury. His mom found him unresponsive and administered CPR. Conner was life-flighted to Scottish Rite Children’s Hospital in Atlanta and that’s where he stayed for 87 days. His parents took turns staying with him in Atlanta and with his younger sister at home.

Conner returned home in early May. His mom gave up her job. Now she takes care of him full time and says, “He’s like a 12 year-old baby.”

The physical challenge of caring for Conner is hard but the financial strain is exacting an even bigger toll. The travel expenses to and from Atlanta during Conner’s hospital stay added up and now the Paynes are buried under mounting medical bills. With just one wage earner in the family it’s tough to make ends meet. That’s why Connie and Chuck are so grateful for the help they’ve received from the local community.

Conner Payne was an active young boy despite the shunt in his head. When the shunt failed on Feb. 10, 2015 he suffered traumatic brain injury.
Conner Payne was an active young boy despite the shunt in his head. When the shunt failed on Feb. 10, 2015 he suffered traumatic brain injury.

The family lives in Toccoa and attends church in Mt. Airy. Welcome Home Baptist recently held a large yard sale and sold meals and baked goods. Young people, men and women were involved in the event. The weather was sunny and Connie says the sales went “tremendously well.” The fundraiser helped the Paynes with some of their expenses, but more expenses remain.

On Saturday, June 20, another fundraiser will be held, this time at Mega Motorsports in Toccoa. The business is sponsoring a motorcycle ride from Toccoa to South Carolina. The cost is $15 per motorcyclist or $25 per couple. The ride starts at 10:30 a.m. at Mega Motorsports on GA 17 Alternate in Toccoa and will follow a scenic route to Chau Ram Park in Westminster, SC. Hot dog plates will be sold at the park for $6 and $2 raffle tickets will be sold for prizes. You can register by calling Shawn Westmoreland of Mega Motorsports at 706-244-3170 or Chris Lawson at 706-968-5247.

If you can’t ride, you can still help.

Westmoreland accepts donations on behalf of the Paynes at Mega Motorsports and the North Georgia Credit Union in Toccoa has a donation account set up in Conner’s name. Donations and cards may also be mailed directly to the family at 337 Colston Drive, Toccoa, GA  30577.

It’s been a long journey for the Paynes but they’re holding on to hope that Conner will recover. They’re living, working and praying for the day when his smile returns and life will once again change, this time for the better.

Conner’s Journey in pictures

For more on Conner Payne’s journey follow him on Facebook at Conner’s Miracle.

Conner Payne was born with hydrocephalus.
Conner Payne was born with hydrocephalus.
Conner with his baby sister.
Conner with his baby sister.
living-conner payne
Conner in happier times
Conner and his sister on their way to school.
Conner and his sister on their way to school.
Connie and Conner Payne
Connie and Conner Payne

Aaron Laverne “Joe” Sisk

Aaron Laverne “Joe” Sisk, age 78, of Marietta, Georgia, passed away on Thursday, June 18, 2015.